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GET HIM TO STEP UP PROGRAM

An 8 Wk Group Experience to learn The New Way to Transform your Marriage from Cold & Distant to Pampered Status with Feminine Energy as a Highly Successful Corporate Working Wife Without Leaving, Settling for less or Boring Talks.

  • Do you feel ashamed and wonder whether your hubby would still be in the relationship if you didn't have any money?

  • Are you a Strong believer in Femininity but have had a lot of difficulty "Implementing " & "embodying " it after years of operating in masculine energy?

  • Do you want to be at Peace, Be a girl again so you can Relax, travel together, have fun & be Fully Taken care of  by your man as you create your purpose-led family legacy?

Take a moment to go on a little journey with me...

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It’s 12 months from today

Your Marriage

Happy….

 

Like…literally  a month to your anniversary, your hubby coming telling you “ Babe, I’ve booked our flights, accommodation pack light we’ll shop there & chill, are you available?”
 

You smiling as you remember the red dress and heels you wore last night for Friday date night which has become the norm week after week

Your son knocking on the door  at 7 am  on Saturday asking “Mum, dad, what’s that noise  , as you giggle then hide under the duvet after your man whispers “OOps babe  I forgot to lock the door”

 

You’re feeling the safest  you’ve felt in your relationship since you said “ I DO”  like you’ve been wrapped around a fluffy pink blanket or warm rich love

 

Feeling so clear  deep down in your bones that “Yes”I married the right man

 

And perhaps most exciting 

 

You feeling, Worthy, Lovable & Attractive 

 

Like 

Walking into a party filled with 25 yrs olds in minis & tank tops &  are  secure that your man only has eyes for you even if you’ve been married for 9 yrs

 

And that magical magnetism  oozing out of you

 

Is unstoppable

You’re A  Pampered wife, the Prize & he feels it.

 

The once in a lifetime kind of woman, who gets men to do things for her with ease
 

All the anxiety, you used to feel for losing yourself in the marriage,

 

Settling for things, not in alignment with who you are 

 

The fear that you deserve the pain and poor treatment for your past wrongdoings &  you’ll never find a man that takes care of you 100%

That  you’re not fully present for your  son and separation would destroy him as a person

GONE

Like you remember it used to be a thing

 

But you can’t for the life of you access it

 

It’s like an unconditionally loving Angel installed herself inside your brain and 

 

drowned out all the critical voices… …

 

and you feel unshakably GOOD about rediscovering the gift of self love. 

This doesn't have to be a Dream; it can be your reality!

“Will I Survive this year married” does not exist in my vocabulary. 

 

Especially when it comes to  being a Well Kept Pampered Wife

 

AND IT WOULD BE MY HONOR TO HELP IT NO LONGER EXIST IN YOURS…

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My Story

So, what qualifies me to help you repair your marriage?

Great Question!

My name is Ms.Linda & I’m a Relationship Mentor, Wingwoman for wives & self proclaimed Feminine Energy Marriage Magician.

 

I went from separated for 6 months, Almost Divorced to Being Pampered in my 12 yr Marriage 

 

I effortlessly turned around my marriage using My P**sy Power aka My Femininity

 

With 

  • No Boring Parents meetings reminding you to persevere

  • No Church & pastors telling you this too shall pass

  • No ultimatums that make the veins on the side of your head pop/ give you wrinkles

  • No therapy

 

Just doing 80% less relationship fixing in my marriage thanks to understanding Feminine energy.


 

Oh did I mention that I was a 50-50 corporate working wife who used to think that a good wife was helpful to her man by giving him tips on how to manage finances in the home, picking out his clothes, giving him advice about his career


 

Whereas now I Ask and Receive with ease ( My new luxury Vehicle, Home Upgrade, Millions invested in my business, Romantic Beach Vacations, Gifts)  because I am Worth it.

 

What might surprise you was that me & femininity was not love at first sight 

 

I didn’t think I had what it takes to Be A Happy Pampered Wife because

 

  1. I thought I’d done everything a good wife was meant to do loyal , hardworking ensuring the home was well taken care of understanding when he needs time with the boys  yet here we were unhappy in our marriage….so I felt I was married to the wrong man

  2. I was & still won’t  minimise or compromise my dream of wanting a truly happy, healthy & wealthy generational legacy i feared my needs would put him under pressure so   thought it would be easier to think of divorce & start afresh

  3. I feared I’d outgrown my hubby because I had started my personal development journey way earlier than he did 

  4. I’m a firstborn & had a successful marketing career in Sub-Sahara Africa for 10+yrs so I i was used to leading, controlling, being in my masculine energy


 

Bottom line. Being Softer, playful & magnetic didn’t come naturally easily to me 

which is why I know I can help anyone with a genuine desire to Get back Love & keep it 

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Testimonials

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Join my 8-week program 

The full 8-week curriculum is outlined below.

This is an outline I’m working off of, as I create this program LIVE with you. This means slight shifts & “What?! This too?! 🙏🏼😍” surprises are likely.

Eight Live Group Coaching Weekly Calls (60 minutes)

 

Live group hot-seat coaching calls where you and I address your real-life relationship situations. 

Mark your calendar and show up! You paid for it and it’s guaranteed fun. 

 

If you can't join the call live, you can submit your questions in advance and I’ll address as many as I can.

 

Can’t make it live? No biggie, you’ll get the recording!

A Peer Support

Private Group

This will be an awesome space to find accountability buddies, where you get to  share wins, ask questions, collaborate, and support each in between calls

 

... (I won't personally be responding to everything but you will be able to stay connected to the the vibes & remain accountable to your weekly  commitments.

 

 I will keep a high-level pulse on the conversations and this will inform the ("Extra Bonus Bundle.") 


 

 BONUS: "Feminine ENERGY WIFE 101" (pre-recorded)

BONUS:

 I hosted this in Feb’23 and it includes 90 hours of pure Femininity Foundations Gold . You’ll receive instant-access to it as soon as you sign up! 

Here's a glimpse at the 1-to-many MAGIC curriculum...

WEEK 1

FIND YOURSELF AGAIN

Call you energy back so you so you can rise from Victim to value

 

Clear out love blocks & toxic patterns thats standing in the way of activating your bright future as a Desired wife so you can magnetize you dream marriage from a place of worth & not wounding

 

Understand how to uplevel your Relationship consciousness by cultivating the Mind of an Alluring Woman.

WEEK 3

THRIVE IN YOUR FEMININE SELF

You already know the power of femininity, let’s get practical guidance on how you on Simple ways you can embody femininity even if you’re used to operating mostly from your masculine 

WEEK 5

BRING THE SPARK

Cut out all behaviors that have been poisoning your relationship what made him withdraw from you & pursue other things; overdrinking, women, overworking & cultivate the right energy to spark Emotional Attraction-its easier than you think

WEEK 7

MAKE HIM MELT COMMUNICATION - HOW TO ASK FOR STUFF

  • The one script you need to have 1 conversation about your needs 

  • How can you have difficult conversations and express hurt feelings in a way that will bond you closer to your man without nagging, begging, or pleading

  • Set your own marital boundaries and express them to your man

  • What happens if your conversation fails.

WEEK 2

HOW TO BE ATTRACTIVE NO MATTER HOW YOU LOOK

Owning your unique personal brand of beauty even if you don’t like how you look right now with a personalised upgrade plan.

WEEK 4

MASTERING MASCULINE-FEMININE POLARITY IN MARRIAGE

Understand Divine Feminine & Masculine Dance in Marriage so you can  go from His mother to lover using energetic polarity

The one mistake that wives make thinking they’re being a good wife, meanwhile they’re killng attraction

WEEK 6

NAVIGATING MONEY DYNAMICS: 50:50 FULLY PROVIDED FOR

Learn the different type of wifestyles & which one is best suitable for you.

Understand how one man can pay the lifestyle one one woman while the other has to beg for a dress….spoiler alert its not about sex or how wealthy he is

Know what it takes for a man to fully invest in you as his wife.Your man will spend Money on someone, why not you his wife?

WEEK 8

POWER  OF THE P TO KEEP HIM FOR GOOD

How to move on past the rough patch in bliss & how to navigate the day to day issues that will come up as you move on in bliss

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Benefits

This eight-week experience will make you feel confident, valued, and respected in your marriage. You'll attract a flood of happy experiences in your love life. 

You’ll attract pleasurable experiences in your love life without working harder

You'll  become your own Relationship Doctor giving you peace of mind as you have the medicie.

 

View challenges that arise in your relationship less like obstacles and more as growth waiting to happen

 

Speaking of deeper intimacy you’ll  feel understood . it will feel less like you coming up with the problems and then  having to resolve them yourself in the end and more like with a man who loves, respectes, honors and acknowledges you.

 

The relationship you have with your husband will deepen, your confidence as a wife & lover will strengthen and your dream of wanting to  leave a love legacy  for your  son so that he can pass it to his children will finally seem possible again.

 

 

You’ll become known for that happy pampered  wife with glowy skin & soft flexible body which looks like she’ll be dancing barefoot in the green grass in her 80’s

 

Date nights at your favorite city hotel  with your hubby will feel like fun place to be and somewhere that fills you with joy

 

You’ll start to feel deep contentment as a wife & mom because you’ll be happy in your love life.

 

AKA you’re no longer accepting accepting poor treatment even when your heart’s crying and telling you something is off

 

Or avoiding expressing your wants

 

Because you love yourself & also feel  loved, respected & honored by your hubby

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What is the format of the program?

It’s an 8 wk live online group coaching program there’re 8 ; 60 min live group coaching sessions accompanied by  8, 30  minute pre-recorded training videos, 8 Home play reflection , & a private peer-support group”).  

2. What type of person is this program best suited for?

This program is for wives in a bare minimum marriages,  seriously contemplating separation or thinking about divorce and truly anyone who wants to know how to get the Queen treatment they deserve from their husband.

3. Who is this program not for?

Wives in physically abusive marriages, or dealing with an addicted partner (sex, alcohol, drugs). For such cases I’d recommend you seek support from a Mental health expert equipped to support you.

4. I'm not a new to femininity. Will this program be too basic?

How is your marriage feeling right now? Do you feel like your relationship is living upto its potential?  Do your deeply connected to your man? When was the last time you looked at him deep in his eyes and felt a spark? 

Do you feel like you’re relaxed & at ease in your marriage? Could you use more guidance on how to practically apply femininity in your marriage?

 

If any of the following questions had you thinking “damn...that’s a good point!” this is for you ;) 

5. What makes this offer different from others?

My approach is Empowering & SPIRITUAL. It honors your wisdom, sovereignty and intuition always.  It’s also content, curriculum & messaging-focused and includes mindset & energy & coaching every step of the way.

6. How much 1:1 Coaching can I expect from Ms. Linda?

In the GET HIM TO STEP UP Group program, there are weekly 60-minute group coaching calls where you can get a hot seat (and if you can’t make it live, you can submit your Q ahead of time).

If you are looking for 1 on 1 coaching support, I'm offering 2 spots and you can email me on

afrofemininemuse@gmail.com.

7. What's your refund policy?

There are no refunds. Please review this sales page carefully; it accurately reflects what is included in the program.

GET HIM TO STEP UP isn't just a live group program

It’s a Transformative gathering

Your energy + my energy + the group’s collective energy

All focussed on one specific intention  - Make our Marriages Joyful again so we can leave a loving legacy for our children and the generation after us

Take a moment to imagine your  husband asking you if he can give you a foot massage

Picture him calling you on Wednesday and telling you “ babe i planned a  surprise for you, everything is handled, I’m coming to pick you at 6:30pm , wear heels

 

Feel the sensation of (relief at knowing your partner deeply, fully HAS you and you can finally fully surrender into his masculine leadership) 

 

This outcome is not a fantasy. 

 

It’s a memory. Of a future that’s inevitable if you desire and choose it. 

Want to speed up this reality manifesting and snap it into your now? (MOTHER TO MUSE PROGRAM) is for you.

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